Η Body Language he subconsciously betrays everything one thinks about the people in front of him, so the movements must be right.
According to the rules of communication, the success of an appointment, whether personal or for work, depends on 58% of the Body Language.
Mistakes in body language that damage a person's image
9. Poor posture
Standing with your shoulders down makes you look insignificant, weak and insecure. If you squat or lean too far back while sitting, it shows that you are very comfortable and not particularly interested in what you are doing.
8. Poor foot posture
The position of our feet is more subconscious and so we can not easily control it. However it may point to Body Language insecurity and betray our intentions.
Those who choose attitude A show that they are childish, insecure and dreamy.
The crossed legs, like the B, show a defensive, distant and narrow-minded attitude.
Attitude C shows dominance and confidence. However, it can also indicate arrogance and often rudeness in formal occasions.
The legs as in D show neutrality and calm.
Putting on legs like the E is more common for women and makes them look more feminine and attractive.
7. Excessive gestures
When a person shakes his hands loudly, it shows a lack of self-confidence and professionalism. No wonder they are nervous movements show nervousness and insecurity. However, the lack of gestures may indicate that there is no interest at all.
6. Crossed arms
This attitude is defensive and shows that you are not impressed or uninterested. Holding your hands parallel to your body, on the other hand, shows that you are open to discussion. Even better, holding hands shows superiority, strength and self-confidence.
5. Weak handshake
The handshake is very important. If she is weak it shows a lack of power or self-confidence. On the other hand, if it is too strong, it can show aggression. The worst handshake is the weak one with cold and sweaty hands.
4. Improper eye contact
Avoiding eye contact points to Body Language that you are not ready or professional in a business meeting and you feel insecure at a date or party. On the other hand, excessive eye contact can show rudeness and hostility.
3. Wrong posture of hands and fingers
Hand rubbing should be used with caution. You may give the impression that you are trying to deceive the other or to impose your thoughts on him instead of convincing him.
2. Not copying others
Copying them movements of the other, builds trust and allows us to enter into deeper discussions. Research shows that although men do it less often than women, women are more strongly influenced by it and find men who repeat their movements more attractive.
1. Not smiling
The smile is very loud and points to Body Language to someone how you listen to him. While some will not notice the posture of your legs and arms, everyone will react to your facial expressions. Apart from that, the smile will make you feel better inside.
via: Enimerotiko