Melina Aslanidou was asked about the possibility of motherhood, with the singer revealing that there was a period when she wanted to become a mother. Although she made efforts to have a child, the desired result did not come. However, as she emphasized, this fact did not psychologically cost her to the extent that she could not move forward in her life.
Melina Aslanidou shared in an interview on Maria Solomou's online show the desire she had in the past to experience motherhood, stating: "I wanted to have a child at some point in my life, I made my efforts, but that didn't work out. On the other hand, I'm moving forward, and I'm fine. I love children, I love them very much and I've thought about adopting a child, I just haven't said that I'm going to do it right away. If you want it, you're not interested in work or anything, you're there and you don't see anything else. For example, I believe that when you're over 40, 50, if you don't calm down, if you don't relax as a woman, it makes it difficult to achieve your legitimate goal. If you let it go, too many of my friends have suffered from it, it's a matter of psychology."
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At the same time, she was asked if she was concerned about the idea of marriage. According to her, a married couple is no different from two people who walk together in life outside the context of marriage. In more detail, she noted: "What difference is there? None, there is none. I think that when you are with a person together, you live together, you stay together, you are like married. Some people get married because they want the party, or they want the blessing because it is a Christian... if I were thinking about it, I would like it to be Christian, that is, to go to church and for no one else to be there except the bride, the groom and the best man, that's it. Nothing else. The party will happen at another time, when we party all the time, if we want to party, we do it."
In fact, she stressed that she never dreamed of getting married. "I'm laughing because I know how you say it, I can't say that to be honest, because that matters, I don't remember myself saying that I want to get married. I wore my friend's wedding dress when she was getting married, it's a custom in Northern Greece, it's considered a good luck charm, we wore it because that's what all the girls did. The girl got divorced, I don't want to get divorced, I want to be with my man for good. Now I'm settled inside," she added.
In the same interview, the singer also talked about her professional life. Specifically, she looked back at the period when she participated as a coach on The Voice through which she became widely known. As she said, she was able to handle the results of the show, but there were times when she was scared because of the recognition. "I think that the recognition I received from The Voice I consider that I handled it well, with calmness. At first, of course, when people were falling on me there, I was a little scared, you understand. I had not learned that now that it is falling on me. I became a little mainstream, it's nice. It didn't bother me. I went through the stage where I didn't want to become mainstream, it was a belief very rooted in us because that was the basic one, so I had to change my belief on my own," she explained.
Source: protothema.gr
