The arrival of a child definitely changes the balances of your daily life and affects - sometimes to a small and sometimes to a greater extent - your relationship with your partner. And especially in the first time, «sex more often falls" victim "of the new situation.
Nightmares, anxieties, anxiety, insomnia, fatigue, possibly nerves… Where to think about sex? And yet… it is a factor that also plays its role in a relationship, so that it stays alive and does not get bogged down.
See below some useful tips to relax, but also not to forget the sexual intercourse with your spouse after the arrival of the child.
Accept the new reality
The arrival of a child brings ups and downs to all families and not just yours. Certainly things are changing and they are different now, but that does not mean that they are problematic. Do not blame each other for the lack of sex and you will surely find your way. The sooner you accept this as a fact, the sooner you will function properly in the new conditions.
Do not worry that your partner does not like you
The body of a woman with pregnancy changes and depending on the case (because not all women are the same) it takes time to come back. But this does not mean that along with the body, the husband's feelings towards you and how he sees you have also changed. And how he no longer likes you. Barely. And if your insecurity is great, it is good to discuss it. Do not draw conclusions alone.
Speak up
What we said above. The worst thing you can do in your marriage is not to talk about your insecurities, stress, what worries you. Your partner can not imagine what you want or how you feel. After all, he may want to talk to you and express what concerns him.
The love life is not over
The fact that you became a parent does not mean that your love life is over. Find time for both of you or something that will renew your relationship. Put a little imagination and overcome taboos that you may have encountered with motherhood.